You have the spark! — Have you tried to become friends with someone but the bond didn’t form? Don’t worry. I have come like James Bond to rescue you😁 There are four pillars to bond. I learnt them after struggling with not making friends for many years. Before showing you the pillars, you must understand…

Over the past 3 years, I have set structures around myself that define what is expected of me and what is a good enough standard. It started consciously but over time, it became unconscious. I just lived out what was expected naturally. Yesterday, I saw proof of this while typing…

You might cry too … lol — I’ll be going a bit personal with this story. This is not the "strong man" type of stories I will naturally share. One of the biggest frustrations I have been facing for the past two to three years now is the fact that many people see me as a strong…

They weren’t obvious — This is the second time I am leaping to create a system that can create large sums of wealth for me. The first time I did, I shared the story of how it ended woefully and I lost money. Almost exactly one year later, I am at it again. This…

Wait first! — There are two ideologies regarding you ideas I have been seeing while studying businesses. One of them is that "ideas rule the world" and that ideas are the most important thing you need The second is that ideas are useless in themselves since it is what you do that determines…

Should I hide or reveal my true self? — Contrary to what we belief that if people know you are from a humble (read: poor) background, they will not respect you, I have learnt from experience that it can actually earn you MORE respect. Who will you respect more? Sam who grew from a 1 room apartment in a…

You’re not alone— there’s help! — I asked a question on a private mental health group about what people would do more if they were more confident. About 70% of the responses were "talk more and make more friends." I can totally relate to that. But instead of building confidence to talk more, I think you…

What are you used to? — You can plan for a 7 figure turnover and get 8 figures. It doesn't have to be, "Although it's 6 figures. I thank God." You can desire Medicine and actually study it (for countries like mine where universities determine your fate). It doesn’t ALWAYS have to be, "God had a…

Yes you can! — I’ve recently been thinking about the relationship between age and wisdom. It is widely believed that in society that wisdom always increases with age and older people will always be wiser than younger people. But as much as that is what is widely believed, that is not what I see…